Good and Evil: Pride Before Fall

good-evil-verse-slide-copy.jpgA few years ago one of our good friends had a baby boy. She had been excited about becoming a mother for a while, and she decided that when she delivered that she wanted her own mother in the delivery room with her. When the baby came, and had been checked out and clothed, the nurses gave the baby to my friend to hold for the first time.

And basking in the glow of motherhood, like any new mom, she looked over and said to her own mother, “Have you ever seen anything so perfect?”

And her mom said, “Honey, don’t forget he came with a sin nature too.”

Thanks mom.

The Problem With Mr. Rogers

Like many of you I grew up watching Mr. Rogers. I’ve read books about what a great man he was, and the thousand ways that he cared for people…especially kids.

But if the rise of “You’re Not Special” graduation talks, stories and literature tell us anything it’s that Mr. Rogers did too good of a job. He was trying to let every child know that they were unique and cared for. And as true and important as that message is,  something else came along with it.


Today the major problem most of us think we face is that we don’t have high enough self-esteem. But this is not as common sense as we might think. A few years ago, a psychologist named Lauren Slater wrote an article for the New York Times where she talked about all the social problems that our focus on a high self-esteem has caused.  In fact, she says, “people with high self-esteem pose a greater threat to those around them than people with low self-esteem, and feeling bad about yourself is not the source of our country’s biggest, most expensive social problems.’

Now I get the push back. Thinking well of myself sounds pretty healthy, but we should at least be aware that this is a relatively new idea.

Historically, human beings thought that the main problem with the world was not having too low of a view of yourself. Traditionally, cultures thought the real problem was what they called Hubris. Pride. The main problem is that we esteem ourselves too highly.

Leonardo DiCaprio said it this way:

“As soon as enough people give you enough compliments and you’re wielding more power than you’ve ever had in your life, it’s not that you become … arrogant … or become rude to people, but you get a false sense of your own importance and what you’ve accomplished. You actually think you’ve altered the course of history.”

This is the reason I think that the show Breaking Bad resonates with people so much is because we are aware of what goes on inside of us. And we see in a strange way, that being reflected in Walter White.

I think this is why the Neo-Reformed movement is so strong with my Christian peers today. Because somebody is talking about what is really going on inside of me, not just what I wish was going on inside of me.

To be clear, I don’t consider myself a Calvinist but I understand why they are growing in popularity with my age bracket (despite some of the more troubling tenants of their faith) one of the most attractive ideas they have is the one that initially I hated the most.

The idea that people are deeply broken and depraved is starting to make more and more sense to me. Not because of what I read or learn but because of who I am.

Someone is naming the evil at war in my heart.

The Enemy of Hope

Andrew Delbanco was a professor of the Humanities at Columbia UNiversity. He was doing some research on the power of AA meetings and so he took a few weeks and travelled around the country visiting different AA meetings everywhere. Toward the end of his research, Delbanco stumbled into a meeting that would change everything for him.

A sharply dressed young man stood up and shared some of his problems, but unlike most AA meetings, he kept blaming his problems on someone else. They were always the result of him being mistreated or hurt by others. He was not just trying to make excuses for his behavior, he was vowing to get vengeance on all those who had put him in this place.

Every gesture and word gave, in Delbanco’s words, “the impression of grievously wounded pride.” He kept saying phrases like, “I’ve got to take control of my life,” and “I just need to believe more in myself.” And that’s when it happened.

A middle aged black man wearing sunglasses inside, leaned over and whispered to Delbanco, “I used to feel that way too, until I achieved low self-esteem.”

Later Delbanco would write a book on this very moment. He said that “This was more than just a good line. For me, it was the moment I understood in a new way the religion I had claimed to know something about… The man beside me took refuge in the old Calvanist doctrine that pride is the enemy of hope.

Did you catch that? Pride is the enemy of Hope.

The Christian story names evil better than any other story I know of. It makes sense of the good I see in Creation and in other people, as well as the capacity for each of us to do horrible things. We are made from the breath of God but also from dirt. And at our best we keep those two things in tension, at our worst we forget the dirt.

Go back and re-read Genesis 1-11 sometime, at the heart of sin, at the heart of the Fall is Pride.

We often say that Pride goes before the Fall, but in the Bible Pride is the fall. 

About jonathanstorment

My family and I love reading, traveling, daddy/daughter dates, playing hide and seek, good music, and long meals with friends. We still miss LOST, and all four of us have Superman uniforms. We are passionate about bringing Heaven to Earth and want to follow Jesus while repainting discipleship for those around us. We are followers of Jesus and I preach at the Highland Church of Christ. We participate in something called A Restoration Movement, and we've come to realize that might be larger than we thought.

7 thoughts on “Good and Evil: Pride Before Fall

  1. Jonathan, very helpful discussion. I know more and more people are looking toward Calvinism, and I need to read more about that movement. I’d welcome you publishing another post or two about this, and even mentioning a few pertinent books. Thanks.

    1. Hi Warren,

      If you want to familiarize yourself with the Reformed Movement you should read Young Restless, Reformed by Collin Hansen –

      and Letters to a young Calvinist by James K. A. Smith –

      Hansen’s book gives a brief introduction to Calvinism. I don’t really like that he sets up Arminianism (free-will) as pretty much a straw man to easily toss aside but the book isn’t really meant to engage Arminianism as much as to explain and promote Calvinism so I get that. He gives it brief air time around page 38. Hansen is a journalist and he goes from various hotbeds of young Calvinist activity/churches and gives his thoughts on what is going on there. I am not a Calvinist but I think this book will give you some valuable insights into how they think.

      Smith’s book is put together like Screwtape letters, a set of letters written as if in conversation with a young Calvinist giving him guidance on his questions, concerns, etc to help him grow up to be a good Calvinist. It also gives some really good insights on where they are coming from and how they would answer some fairly tough questions.

      Hope that helps.

  2. Jonathan,

    Nice piece, again. I have yet to meet a ‘troubling tenant’ of the Calvinist doctrine, but I do have issue with the tenets of Calvinism of Limited Antonement and Unconditional Election. 🙂

    As for hubris and self-esteem…these feed into what becomes narcissism. I had a coach growing up (17 years ago!) that said we had too much self-esteem already and that people needed more self-respect; one comes with hubris, the other is earned. And neither have anything to do with your ability to be saved.

    1. Thanks Kyle, yeah Narcissism is what’s really toxic. I get the need for self-respect, but it’s fascinating how easily we fool ourselves and cross the line between that and hubris. That’s why we have to live life in community.

  3. “At our best we keep those two things in tension” That is well said. Most believers I meet have a tendency to hide the dirt and pretend it doesn’t exist. This keeps self esteem and pride high, because as far as everyone else knows, we are perfect. I find it particularly dominate in Ministry. The only “dirt” we like to show is “a thing of the past.” Not many ministers are willing to talk about their current flaws (unless they are socially acceptable, which is understandable). Congregations make it worse by elevating ministers onto this un-human plain of existence. If you have real human problems you aren’t fit to minister. Even though those are the types God uses over and over again in his Story.

    Like you said, we are all made from dirt. We would do well to remember it.

    1. Thanks Steven, I appreciate that comment. There is a real pressure on ministry leaders to have their act cleaned up…or at least look like it. I was in a Highland Shepherd meeting last month, where one of our elders said he wonders if shepherds and ministers are the ones who it is hardest for them to get the Gospel. Thanks Steven!

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